Nice Guy / Good Girl Syndrome. How to Stop People-Pleasing?

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Description: You probably know somebody who is a people-pleaser - the person who always wants your opinion on their outfit, asks for your input on where to go out Friday night, and will do anything you ask them to do. You see them start to struggle, but they never want to let you down and continually find themselves in situations they don't likePeople-pleasers may:Apologize for things that need no apologyChronically second-guess themselves in the decision-making processGo along with plans they disagree withRefuse to hold their ground when the other person is persuasively argumentativeMake unnecessary concessions when the other is pushyPretend to agree even when they don’tPeople-pleasers squander energy by fretting about what other people are thinking. They often don’t know what they want or like because they have always been focused on the other person. They fear confrontation and would rather bite their tongue than say anything to rock the boat, ultimately building a life of resentment and unexpressed emotions.We are taught that being nice and thinking about other people’s feelings are important. It is important, and wanting to please people is a lovely characteristic to have, but when you start to bend over backwards to such an extent that it impacts your own emotions, then it becomes a harmful problem.People pleasers:are addicted to approvalput the needs of others before their ownare nice to everyonehave a difficult time standing up for themselvesnever say how they feelexperience chronic guilt and fear of hurting othersprefer to conform with others, even if they internally disagreeAs a people pleaser, you have a compulsive need to be liked by everyone. You feel icky when people don't like you, and you'll go
Category: Personal Development > Self Esteem & Confidence > Self-Esteem
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