Clean Language and Systemic Modelling

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Description: Are you suffering from premature evaluation?It’s a common problem; believing you know what’s true before you’ve investigated or clarified it.Symptoms – thinking you know what’s best for people, feeling sure you’re right and people have to agree with you, believing you can’t have what you want, offering unrequested advice?The symptoms can be relieved in three easy stages:Stage 1 – Self-modelling – paying exquisite attention to your own beliefs, values, behaviours and patternsWe each live in our own unique model of the world built up from our culture, upbringing, education, experiences, beliefs etc. From this we build up internal representations of ourselves, others and the world.These representations can be sensory based, could be in words or concepts, or might be in metaphor or symbols. We respond to our representations/models of the world, not to reality. We aren’t always aware of the representations that run our responses. As we become aware of them and understand how they work, we can use them more effectively. If we’re not happy, it could be to do with some of our representations, we don’t have to keep them, we can update them and learn new ones.Stage 2 – Modelling others’ beliefs, values, behaviours and patternsOther people will have very different presentations of the world to us. Without bothering to understand their values and how their behaviours make sense to them, we usually judge people’s behaviour through our own representations and are almost always wrong.Other people aren’t always aware of the representations that run them. Asking clean questions and Systemic Modelling allows us, and them, to gather fresh information about their representations of the world.Stage 3 – Building rapport with ourselves and othersDeliberately adjusting your patterns (representations, beliefs, behaviours), in order to communicate more clearly.
Category: Personal Development > Personal Transformation > Communication Skills
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Price: 24.99
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Source: Impact
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